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As Above, So Below My Standards

a love + lust horoscope—planetary alignments & dating do’s + don'ts

The June 11 Sagittarius full moon says: if it’s not expanding your world, let it go. Here’s how it’s shaking up your love life by rising sign:

Aries Rising 

A shift in long-distance love that once felt expansive. If it’s no longer exciting, you’re over it. 

Do: Watch Before Sunset and romanticize the present moment, not the “what if.”

Don’t: Re-read old messages to feel close to someone who’s far.

Taurus Rising 

You’re detaching from a deep emotional or sexual bond that’s been draining. It’s OK to cut the cord.

Do: Listen to “Sincerely” by Kali Uchis and journal about what closeness means to you.

Don’t: Scroll through old photos or stalk someone who still has emotional power over you.

Gemini Rising 

Closure in a partnership. Don’t try to make it work if it’s not mutual. Let it go even if it once meant a lot.

Do: Listen to Mel Robbins’ The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You podcast episode with husband Chris Robbins on love and marriage. Ask yourself: is my partner meeting me there?

Don’t: Confuse history with compatibility.

Cancer Rising 

Emotional cleanup. You’re done with dating habits that exhaust your body and pull you out of your rhythm.

Do: Deep clean your space and throw a themed dinner party with peanut chicken kabobs as the main course.

Don’t: Say yes to someone just because they finally texted back.

Leo Rising 

A romantic or creative chapter is closing. If you’ve been playing a role to keep someone interested, #STOP! 

Do: Revisit an old project that once lit you up. 

Don’t: Go on dates just to prove you’re over someone. Healing never needs an audience.

Virgo Rising 

You’re realizing how childhood patterns shape your dating life. And if it doesn’t feel like home, it’s not for you.

Do: Read It Didn’t Start With You By Mark Wolynn and analyze/trace the emotional inheritance.

Don’t: Try to fix someone in hopes they’ll become the person you need.

Libra Rising 

If your siblings don’t like them, there’s a reason. You’re learning that love doesn’t just involve two people and ​clear communication brings closure.

Do: Ask someone who loves you what they really think.

Don’t: Ignore the red flags just to avoid conflict.

Scorpio Rising 

You’re the prize. Let go of connections that don’t reflect your values.

Do: Buy yourself a Lollapalooza festival ticket. Celebrate choosing yourself.

Don’t: Mistake intensity for intimacy. 

Sagittarius Rising 

This is your full moon. You're shedding an old version of yourself. Put you first.

Do: Book a spontaneous one-way ticket.

Don’t: Dim your “bigness” to fit into someone else’s comfort zone.

Capricorn Rising 

You’re releasing a secret longing or subconscious fear. Something  unseen is going to come to light.

Do: Go to sleep listening to an 8-hour subconscious programming meditation by Rea Earth. 

Don’t: Pull a tarot card. Trust your gut instead.

Aquarius Rising

A situationship or group dynamic might fizzle. You are done pretending “casual” works for you when you want commitment. 

Do: Watch Frances Ha and notice how craving connection doesn’t make you needy.

Don’t: Pretend you’re above wanting love.

Pisces Rising 

A romantic decision could impact your public image. This full moon asks: does your love life reflect the future you’re building?

Don’t: Romanticize the past just because the future feels uncertain. Choose alignment over nostalgia. 

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